I challenge you to be alone; I challenge you to dig deep and find out who you are.
I challenge you to look at the face in the mirror and love yourself as much as you love other people because those other people you love and admire so much – they have flaws and bad habits and problems, too.
Stop pouring all your heart and energy into people who don’t want it, into people who don’t respect you and treat you well. Pour that heart and energy into yourself.
Don’t text people who don’t respond. Don’t call someone because you’re lonely – instead, be lonely. Deal with the loneliness and find a way within yourself to fill the gaps in your heart.
Being alone will teach you just how strong you are.
You will become the best version of yourself and that’s what's truly important. You won’t change who you are anymore depending on who you’re around. You can walk away from friendships that are draining. You can enjoy going to get coffee alone. You can say no to people who aren’t keeping your best intentions at heart. You can be vulnerable because you know who you are. It will allow you to be able to form better relationships with everyone in your life, including yourself.
I challenge you to be alone, truly alone, because it can be the best thing you’ll ever do for yourself. Learn who you are, then spread that love you’ve found within to the rest of the world.
-Sushantika
Beautiful <3
ReplyDeleteI really wanted to hear from you actually, bdw thanks
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Sushantika
hi Sushantika
ReplyDeletei just came across your article and want to apprise you of few things.
you look very young and beautiful and being so thoughtful at such an early age is really appreciable. From the 2nd paragraph it is evident that someone you like has hurt you and you want to be alone. i would say just be yourself and love yourself. nobody is perfect in this world and we much choose people who may not be perfect but makes you perfect and admire your presence in their life. i would like to dig more into your writing and know more about you.
keep writing
regards
Rajeev
Thank you so much for the feedback, am like 19 years old. I like writing cause that's the only thing which never disappoints me and I like to hear out from my friends about their relationship. So after listening to many I came out with this :)
DeleteSushantika, you are very thoughtful for a 19 year old girl. you are making me curious to know more about you. when can i expect the next article from you?
Deletethank you so much for the feedback
Deleteam planning to post more on weekly purpose :)
if you've anything on mind please feel free to mail me
really appreciate your reply and looking forward to have more conversations with you but i don't have your email id.. you can reply me at realblogger24@gmail.com
Deletepensive, i must say..write more
ReplyDeletethank you so much for the feedback
DeleteAm trying to write but I barely get time and now you've to wait another week for my next blog just lemme know if you've anything to say
Hey my baby has grown up to a big girl so soon that I never noticed..Good work dear...Keep it up! Much love
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for the feedback, Actually am counting my each age and writing something about it.
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